It was always assumed, incorrectly, that the play instinct of a child and he can do it without the help of adults. Although very young children engage in child's play spontaneously, it should also be noted that without the intervention of adults to promote early childhood development, this instinct will disappear gradually over time.
Children's play helps a close-knit relationship between family members to build. Through play, parents can expose their children to problem solving and supportExplore their ideas. E 'through the playing time that children learn their thoughts, feelings and need to communicate with adults. There are also social interaction skills where they learn to take turns and exposed sensitive to the feelings of others. However, it is important to know, in fact, for parents, like children playing with their children and how to avoid common mistakes when playing with children.
1. Follow your child's lead
But the introduction ofTheir ideas, the first and most important in the game with the children to follow their example. Do not give orders or instructions to imitate, but their actions and follow what they ask you to do. Become more involved and creative in their play. These encourage children to think independently and creatively.
2. Pace the game for your child
Children love the same activities over and over again when they play. Parents are oftenbored by this type of child's play repetitive and seeks to accelerate the pace by introducing new activities. The truth is that children in the practice to master a skill and if they are forced to a new activity they need to play often frustrated and give up if they find the challenge too great. Remember to leave enough time for him to use his imagination, slower also help expand its ability to maintain attention and concentration.
3. Are realisticExpectations
Avoid toys to play or concepts that are also well advanced for the level of your child. One might think that your three years, has prepared a 40-piece puzzle is complete and we try to teach him how to be that he resists. This resistance is the way in which he shows his frustration on something that he does not understand, but is asked to do. The right thing to do if a parent, you determine that your child is interested in the game must be on their way to something that doeswant to do. Take time for your child to think, explore and experiment, do not worry, even if a puzzle game becomes a game of spinning or a creative design.
4. Avoid power struggles
Many parents unconsciously establish a relationship of competition to play with their children. Consider a parent and a child playing blocks. The child can always be happy the first wall of his house and when he finally recovered, he sees his parents for the praiseonly to discover that her parents have a house built. This makes the child feel inadequate. He may also feel that he is involved in a competition with his parents and can finally stop playing because it is not equipped to win. It may also be other ways to control the situation, like a fancy resort.
5. Praise and encourage creativity
Judge not to correct or contradict your children play with them. The process of creating andExperiment with them and what is important to remember that children do not play to make sense to you. The cars can fly and the animals can talk. Rather than focusing on things socially appropriate, from your children, because their concentration, perseverance, commitment, problem-solving, imagination, cooperation and motivation during the game. Praise their achievements with enthusiasm and his encouraging statements will help this good social goodSkills.
6. Encourage make believe, fantasy and role play
Never frown imaginative play. Instead, parents should encourage this type of game because it helps develop your child to a variety of cognitive, emotional and social. They have tables and chairs from homes and buildings, and making puppets with friends or relatives. imaginative play and fantasy helps children to think creatively and symbolically. In addition, he teaches what is real and whatit is not.
7. Use a descriptive comment
descriptive comment is a comment in implementing activities for children and often as a sports commentator sounds like the play-by-play description of a game. Remarks to provide descriptive, show interest in your children play and also promotes the development of language.
8. Curb the desire to give much help
Parents who are helpful, may make it difficult for their children to learnto solve problems and play independently. Parents can provide sufficient support, advice, praise and encouragement to challenge first.
9. pay attention to play
Parents the opportunity, of course, when their children play quietly take care of their society, such as preparing meals or reading a book to get. This should not be approved because children should not know how much they appreciated playing quietly for her. Instead, they areTo play the game for only their guilt or noisy, they pay attention to their parents'. And 'natural for a child to work to the attention of someone he loves, whether positive (praise) or negative (abuse). If not, (for example, play quietly), the positive attention for appropriate behavior, they will then work towards a more negative attention due to misconduct. This is the logic behind the development of behavioral problems in old age.
10.Get ready to play for the end of a session
Enter your child to play gentle reminder five minutes before the end of the session from him, "will be in a few minutes to play it time for me to quit with you." If five minutes have lapsed, I say, "Now is the time for me to pay more I enjoyed this time with you and we can do it again tomorrow .." You must then remove and discard any reason. Once the child has learned that you do not change more in the gameTime will decrease the protests. More importantly, when they realize that there is a regular game session every day, have less need to protest, as there is a further opportunity for the next day.
It 'important for parents, children play-value activities and entertainment, as only they can not help, they can help their self-esteem, their social, emotional and cognitive well be expanded to promote. Playing with the following 10 tips for effective child to help you with yourChild, to test their ideas, explore the impossible, to test their new ideas, make mistakes, solve problems, be creative and gradually gain confidence in their thoughts and ideas. This ultimately helps the child in a unique individual, creative and hopeful development.
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